How to find yourself…and other secret dreams
Want to find yourself? Want to find out who is the real you? Have any other goals in mind? Places to visit? Other dreams to pursue?
Well, whatever your goals or secret dreams, here’s four steps that can help you get there. These four steps can help to stop yourself floundering, wandering around in circles, and simply guessing if you are on track.
Define where you are going.
Understand what it looks like…in detail.
Understand how you will recognise it when you get there.
Understand exactly where you are now…in detail.
Understand exactly what makes you not where you need to be.
Work out how you are going to get there.
Explore what paths you can take and what traps and pitfalls lay in the way.
Develop a map and a timeframe.
Define milestones of success.
Workout what tools and skills and guidance you may need.
Have a backup plan in case of unforeseen circumstances.
Start your journey.
Follow your map.
Check regularly to see you are still on track.
Beware of pitfalls and false shortcuts.
Know when to ask for help and know when you don’t need to ask for help.
Celebrate each milestone.
When you get there…have a party…be proud…and then start working on your next goal…